What is a successful confession? There’s a big difference in how men’s and women’s feelings ‘build up’.

The other dayTiming for a successful confessionRegarding this, I heard a rather profound story, so I'd like to share it. If you want to succeed in your confession, you might want to take it as a reference. lol

This is a completely different topic from usual, please excuse me.

Now, we often hear that timing is crucial for a successful confession, but have you all considered timing? In fact, there's a saying that if you get the timing wrong, it will almost certainly fail. So, what is the best timing for a successful confession?

Generally, men tend to rush their confessions.

You think, 'What if, while I remain silent, someone confesses to her or him and they accept? What if I hesitate and someone else snatches them away?' And then, you end up confessing at a moment that is absolutely 'not the right time'.

Actually, what is the timing for a successful confession?How mutual feelings build upIt is in sight.

First of all, regarding how men's feelings rise,The man suddenly rises at first.When graphed, it shows a sharp initial rise, followed by either a gradual increase or a gradual decrease.

Meanwhile, regarding how a woman's basic feelings rise,Gentle from beginning to endIt gradually rises. While it may sometimes rise sharply in the latter half, it is generally slower than for men. It gradually rises during communication.

In other words,Men's feelings rise suddenly, while women's feelings rise graduallySuccess is highly probable when these mutual feelings align, or when you confess at a moment when the other person's feelings are stronger than your own.

It is often said that meeting three times before confessing is a good approach. However, that really depends on the individual. Don't be swayed by the number three; it's not very relevant. What's important for success is to observe the other person's feelings.

Men, especially, tend to rush into confessions initially.If you suddenly confess when the other person's feelings haven't fully developed yet, you will fail.It's a given. It's proof that you can only see yourself. If you don't confess when the other person's feelings are high, you won't succeed.

Calm down and observe the other person carefully.

In the case of women, they often make others wait too long. When their feelings rise,by the time their feelings of liking someone grow strong, the man might already be dating someone else.To succeed, I think it's about making a confession when you feel the other person is interested, but in reality, sometimes your own feelings haven't fully developed at first, so they might not even be a romantic interest to begin with.

In other words, men need to take their time and nurture feelings until the woman's feelings are fully developed.

However, people are all different, so there are women whose feelings develop quickly, and men whose feelings develop slowly. That's why,observing the other person carefullyis the secret to success. Observe each other carefully, let your feelings grow, and once you truly believe you both have feelings for each other, confess without hesitation. If it fails then, it can't be helped.

Conversely, women might be better off not dating men they can't stay with until their feelings are fully developed. Men who quickly wander off somewhere,ultimately don't want you, but rather 'a girlfriend'.Before talking about success or failure, the act of choosing might itself be a failure.

Without rushing, let's carefully nurture each other's feelings.The phrase 'nurture' is not just about after dating or marriage, but from before you even start dating.it has already begun. Succeed in confessing at the optimal timing and start a good relationship.